We spend so much time telling women how not to be raped and assaulted, it's almost like we forget to tell the culprits not to do it.
Fact is, it isn't the fault of the victim. "She was dressed like a slut" is not a reason for imposing one's powers and desires over another person any more than "she left her window unlocked" is a reason for burgling a person's house.
It doesn't matter how drunk you are, or angry you are, or horny you are. All acts of abuse against a person physically weaker than you - rape, assault, theft, threatening behaviour, bullying - are unjustifiable. End of story.
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Sian. I love this post. It's an incredible perspective on the topic. You know? We tell women to shape up and get their act together.... but what about men? When do we teach them that rape is NOT an option.
ReplyDeleteI approve, very much so.
ReplyDeleteLove the post - LOVE the message.
ReplyDeleteBlissie
Amen.
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